Everything You Know About Yourself Is a Lie (And That’s a Good Thing)
Letting Go of Labels to Find True Freedom
Who the Heck Am I, Really?
(And Why It Took Me 60+ Years to Figure It Out)
For the longest time, I thought I knew who I was.
A nurse. A massage therapist. A daughter. A sister. A friend.
Those were my answers when someone asked, “Tell me about yourself”. And for a while, they felt right. They felt true.
But now, as I sit here at 60+, finally breathing in a kind of peace I never expected, I realize…
None of those things were me.
They were just the clothes I put on. The roles I played. The way I made sense of myself in a world that needed me to be something.
But now? I’m stepping out of all that.
And here’s the weirdest part: I’m not scared. I’m free.
The Identity Trap (And How We All Fall Into It)
Ever feel like you’ve spent your whole life becoming - only to realize you never really knew what you were becoming in the first place?
Yeah. Same.
We spend years, decades even, answering to titles, relationships, job roles. We define ourselves by what we do, who we take care of, and the responsibilities we carry.
And then one day, something shifts.
Maybe it’s writing. Maybe it’s meeting new people who see you before they see your title. Maybe it’s a nudge from the universe itself.
Whatever it is, you start to realize…
Wait.
I’ve been here the whole time. I just never stopped long enough to see myself.
The Universe is Always Speaking (Are You Listening?)
Here’s the crazy thing.
The moment I started letting go of all the labels, something wild happened.
People - the right people - started showing up in my life.
Ever just start writing or reflecting, and suddenly, the universe (God, Mother Earth, The Divine, whatever you want to call it) just starts dropping all these people in your lap?
Like one after another, as if some invisible force is saying, Here.
You’re ready for them now.
That’s what’s happening to me.
And it’s unreal.
Today, even after my acupuncture appointment, I found myself drawn - no, pulled - to a stone. Malachite. I walked into this shop like a horse that’s been a thousand miles in the desert, craving water, needing this stone in my hands. And the second I held it, I could feel it.
The energy. The shift. The knowing. The tears flowing down my cheeks.
It hit me. What I’m seeking is also seeking me.
And here’s the part that gives me chills…
It’s not just me.
We’re All Feeling It - And That’s No Accident
Lately, I’ve noticed something.
People - strangers, acquaintances, old friends - are all talking about this.
This shift. This awakening.
It’s like we’re on the same wavelength, tuning into the same frequency, hearing the same call.
And I don’t think it’s random.
I don’t think it’s just a bunch of individuals having personal epiphanies at the same time.
I think we’re being pulled together.
For something bigger than ourselves.
Because each of us, individually, is discovering something powerful. But the sum of all of us together?
That’s something greater.
That’s movement.
That’s change.
And I don’t know where it’s leading yet, but I know I’m supposed to be here.
And if you’re reading this—so are you!
What’s Next?
Who knows? Maybe next time you see me, I’ll be in tie-dye with a headband and a handful of stones around my neck.
Or maybe I’ll be sitting in the same chair, but with a heart that’s lighter, clearer, mine.
Either way, I’m finally getting to know me.
And if you’re on this journey too - if you’re peeling back the layers and wondering who’s been waiting underneath all along - I just wanna say:
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Transform To Wellness- Kathleen Thorne RN, LMT (RN3252112/ MA54880)
I love this Kathleen 💕 It’s true. When we open up these old hearts, take the bars down and labels off, we send out a beacon of light. People are attracted to the light. This is happening all over the world. And we need it 🥰☀️🦋
I like this change of topic :)